Anywhere you go on this planet, women are perceived to be caregivers, and nurturers to their men, but what a lot of us forget is that much like our time, our affections are a precious commodity that should also only be made available to the best man in the race (and yes, in a city like this, everything is a rat race).
Your affections and heart should be warranted to the kind of man who’s eyes see you and only you in a room full of people. The man who takes that extra step to make not only you comfortable in any given situation, but also your entourage, whether it be your family, friends, etc. When a man becomes selfless, when he sets his eye on the grand finale and has named you his prize, that’s when you know you stand before the man who deserves your affections.
Point and Case; The story of Mr. X Vs. Mr. Z
Once long ago, a girl was smitten by a fella named Mr. X, with absolutely no good reason. This Cinderella and Mr. X barely saw one another, and their communication was lacking to say the least. While they only lived 20 minutes from one another, the two worked the same hours and schedules, yet only managed to see each other once every few weeks at best. While Cinderella obligingly excused this obstacle, Mr X’s reasoning were a repetitive “I’m sorry I don’t have time at the moment” OR “Once this is over or that’s over, I’ll prioritize our time together.” Ummm Negative…. If his calendar reveals when you’ll become a priority, don’t just walk away, run like your stepping on lava. As prophesized by Greg Behrendt, Mr. X “is just not that into you”
Mr. Z on the other hand, was a 9-6 kinda guy who dated a Cinderella who worked as a cocktail waitress, which means at best she was out of work at 1 am. So while these two had bipolar schedules, one would think this relationship would never work right… Wrong!
Mr. Z was really and truly into Cinderella, and showed her how much by, what he did for her. Every night she worked. Mr. Z would nap early and wake up at 11:30 p.m. He would drive to pick her up by 1 a.m, just so they could spend that short period of time together.
Hands down Mr. Z proved to be a worthy guy through that one action.
On the other hand, somewhere along the line between Mr.X and Cinderella the role of prey and predator was lost in translation. A man will move mountains to be with the woman he wants, and if he doesn’t… I need not say more...
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