“I saw the sign… and it opened up my eyes”

As much as we want to make the connection with that special someone, If we see signs or flags being waved, turning a blind eye is not the thing to do. I’m not saying run at the sight of the first flag wave, but definitely take a mental note of what you see and assess what it means. It’s easy for women to over analyze and over think things, but it’s also more common for them to stay in a situation that isn’t right just because they’ve put in the time so they deal with the crimes. Let’s look at some scenarios of what Mr. right and Mr. right now would do and how to take note of a wave.

What Mr. Right would do:

            You just started dating a new man. It had been less than a month. Your birthday comes up and you gather some friends for dinner to celebrate, and decide to invite the object of your affection. Mr. Right, not knowing your friends or you in actuality, not only shows up, but throughout the night stays by your side and makes an attempt to genuinely get to know your friends.

What Mr. Right now would do:

            You decide to throw a party. All you can do is talk to your friends about how excited you are to have them finally meet the object of your affections. He tells you he’ll be there a little later in the night because he has a prior engagement. Hours into the night, no sign of him. You call his cell… no answer. You text…still no answer. End result he never shows up.

            Mr. Right put you & your interests first because a man is out to appease the woman he wants, but Mr. Right now waved the flag labeled “your not important enough to me to appease.” Don’t take it personal… “He’s just not that into you” and that’s ok… when you see a flag, recognize it, and if you see enough… then you know what’s up.