If you’ve had a relationship where you’ve done all you can to do right by your man, and things still didn’t go as planned… the first phrase that’s more likely to come out of your mouth will probably be “Well men love bitches.” Because a book titled that very same phrase can be found in your local book stores, women feel inclined to think that yes, men do love bitches.
When I asked a few men their thoughts on whether they would date a bitch or not, funny enough I found that men who hold high professional positions such as financiers and attorneys tend to be attracted to the domineering sort of female who carries the title of a “bitch.” Are these relationships the healthiest? Not so much. These men are looking to fill a certain kind of role in their lives. These are men that are socially considered strong, yet undercover, enjoy the emasculating process… hence their love for “The Bitch.”
Men who are secure with themselves, seemed to be attracted to the kind of women who has no problem being herself. The kind of women that can stand independently. The woman that chooses to be with them, but doesn’t need them.
A few weeks back, I mentioned that men are predators in search of their preys. Therefore if a woman is confident and realizes that she doesn’t need the man… he will be more inclined to want that prey versus any other.
As stated by Doménico Cieri Estrada, “To know when to go away and when to come closer is the key to any lasting relationship”. So whether you’re the no non-sense kinda women, or the wholesome type that’ll ride out a situation, or the one foot in-one foot out till your sure kind of chick, don’t try faking the funk. Be true to who you are, and remain independent so you can gage when to go away or come closer. Mr. Right will love, accept and cherish you for you. With Mr. Right now you’ll have to put up a front, and in the end, the truth always comes out.